Here I am back at work and having nothing to take my mind of being single anymore. lol

I have hit up a pen pal on here which is actually nice to be able to tell someone what makes you tick without the fear of them saying how disgusting it is or how degrading to like what I like.
They dont have an opion of my life which is a nice thing really I think.

To be honest I don't think I would care if they did or not now actually. The only thing I do is keep my work life totaly seperate from my pleasrue time lol.
It would not go down well guys knowing at work that I was bi and that I like to be dominated in everything I do when I am at home. I would have few trying it on I am sure as not everybody can grasp that BDSM is a way of life not just a cheap thrill as how some people look at it.